Love: Singular word , plural meaning

Love!  Being a singular word with a powerful meaning, it consists of plural actions and many experiences. Desired by almost everyone still, it is one of the most demanding things in the world, yet. Right, isn’t it?

We often talk about love like it is one simple thing, but you are guaranteed to encounter these types of love at least once in this lifetime. Let’s have a look at the actual scenario about which love are you experiencing right now and check how much it’s affecting your love life. 

One of the harder ones for people to escape, yet so easy to fall into, may be called as Empty Love. You feel like you are on cloud 9 one moment, then spiraling the next. These empty relationships are as empty as the person creating it and usually involves a chaotic teeter-totter effect. Sadly, you don’t know how long you can stay attached to this person. At the end of the day, you do not really love them, you just love what they can do for you. Quit while you’re ahead. 

Are you becoming addicted to trying new things, meeting new people, and exploring for a while and you feel that your actions are more sporadic and are effective as long as you meet someone going through the same phase? Be sure you are in the clutch of Pulse Love that lives off adrenaline. Stay assured once you hit the bump known as commitment in the road, the rush can come to an end. 

Come let me tell about Unbalanced Love, that can be tricky to escape unscathed because this usually ends in a devastating way, if not resolved. In this case you often feel more like a parental figure instead of a lover due to the give and take system. When you feel like you’re giving more, you should immediately express this. Hiding your feelings leads to petty actions & a constant search for their behavior in order to validate the imbalanced relationship. In the end, you will simply explode the time bomb of every moment you felt used and abused. 

When you love for them, care and want to be everything, but simply can’t, that can be frustrating. When your feelings are one sided that can be definitely one of the most painful love experiences, as we call it Lonely Love. Maintain the relationship but love yourself first before showering them with care again. Better to have loved than lost, huh? 

We all have that one person we love more than our own family. Of course, the love doesn’t involve anything s**ual (unless you are FWBs), but the love is stronger than any other. Platonic Love is one of the most rewarding because you genuinely love a person for their entire being. 

I am excluding True Love, as it’s a feeling that everybody has experienced and doesn’t needs to describe or explain.